Had a very interesting conversation with one of my friends last night. I asked her what a girl means when she tells a guy that he is cute.
Now, for me being called cute is being pink, or red, or simply gay (I hate being politically correct all the time, especially when I’m called cute)! It is like you are being told, “Sorry mate, you are not good for anything. But we can be friends”.
My point is, I do not mind being a friend. But I hate being a ‘cute’ friend.
So I asked her in plain words, and she told me what the different words really mean:
Cute: The guy can sweep the girl off her feet by his charm.
Hot: The guy can sweep the girl off her feet through his looks.
Smart: The guy can sweep the girl off her feet because of his brains.
… and so on.
I must say we are way better (and creative) in terms of expression. We are the better deceivers in this game.
So here’s my take on the different things we tell a girl, and what we really mean:
Cute: You are beautiful.
Beautiful: You are hot.
Hot: I so want to have sex with you. Right now.
This is it. Simple, no?